People with small patterns tend to have more conflicts in their eyes.

Qian Zhongshu once mentioned a very thorough viewpoint:

The two characters “radical” were originally connected.

“Let’s not be impulsive, of course our opinions will have other biases.”

Upon careful consideration, it is indeed so.

If a person’s thoughts start to move towards a certain extreme, their way of dealing with others will also be full of hostility.

The so-called thought includes not only knowledge and thinking, but also pattern and height.

Self media personality has always said this story:

Many years ago, he once met a client who had a net worth of over 100 million, so theoretically, life should be very comfortable.

After encountering him, Ge finally realized that his life was not going well in every aspect.

Once, Ge and the client agreed on a date to sign the contract.

But at the agreed time, the customer did not show up for a long time.

Mr. Ge ran around all the places nearby, big and small, and finally found him in the parking lot.

It turned out that the customer had an argument with someone while parking in the parking lot, which delayed the time.

At that time, he parked his car between two cars, but it was a bit inconvenient to get off.

The customer saw the situation and cursed loudly as if there was no one around.

Unexpectedly, there was someone in the left car who heard him mutter and rolled down the car window to retort.

The customer was furious after listening.

He stood in the parking lot cursing at the others, almost even getting into a fight.

Until more and more onlookers gathered and everyone present spoke kindly, the client reluctantly calmed down.

Afterwards, the client began discussing the project with Mr. Ge.

The originally agreed terms, when it was time to sign the contract, the client began to nitpick again.

He insisted on signing the contract according to his own ideas, but was immediately scolded by General Manager Ge after being rejected.

Helpless, Mr. Ge stopped cooperating with him.

Later, Mr. Ge heard that the client still had a bad face during the process of cooperating with other companies, and his reputation spread throughout the industry.

Yi Shu’s words are very correct:

“Everyone talks about another person, and the truth is always one basket after another. A light that is eight feet tall can illuminate others but not oneself.”

The most taboo thing in life is to be self righteous and use one’s own ruler to measure the lives of others, weighing their lives on one’s own scale. I always want to follow my heart in everything, use my own standards to measure right and wrong in the world, always treat people with a lofty attitude, and one day I will fall from the false “high ground”.

The most difficult thing in dealing with the world is to remain clear headed, deeply understand that “a foot has its shortcomings, an inch has its strengths”, and view all things in the world with a humble and low-key attitude.

There is no right or wrong in the eyes, everything is pleasing to the eye, and life is full of beautiful scenery.

Having a broad and prosperous heart, understanding to respect differences, is the key to successfully completing one’s life journey.